Love Is? Love Not?

The intensity of fire is unexplainable
The depth of love is immeasurable
The strength of loyalty is unfathomable
The force with which the heart holds on to another
Is above all incomprehensible
The bright flame of fire is alike the intense feeling of love
The pain is felt
With all that you have, will you be able to give….
Love…..is but a mystery

No, i haven't fallen in love yet...wrote this after listening to a cousin pour out her feelings of love for *wink *wink* to me. It's just amazing how much love a person can feel for another. I'm not embarassed to say that i have experienced a one sided love for this guy once. Never did i tell him that i liked him . But i don't regret it either because it would never have worked out anyway. Yet, this so called one sided love is nothing as compared to the love my cousin feels for *wink*wink*.
The power of emotions.....love, not lust. Feeling this much love, perhaps to some would be a great feeling but the thought of it , is sort of scary. Perhaps, someday you would, i would.....till that day arrives, i can only liken that feeling to a mere crush or maybe even lust that one can feel for the opposite sex, which i have felt and feel from time to time. After all, as long as you are single and unattached, why not, right?
Just a few days ago, i was having dinner and chatting with galfriends. And like all single girls, we were talking about what men look for in a woman. How some men can love one and marry another? How some men claim to get bored with their wife after several years of marriage? Coming from a partially conservative background, i've watched mothers who have pushed their daughters to get married by the age of 25 , just to avoid from the harsh critics of the society or just to shut the mouth of older "uncles" and "aunties" who keep asking the 25 yr old girl, "When is your turn?". I'm not sure if it is the best practice for a girl to marry a guy, despite him having all the right qualities, just in order to satisfy the society. Marriage as some people say is a gamble but, i feel that a marriage based on love, care and understanding between 2 individuals is the foundation for a great nation as most of often than not, a solid marriage produces the better individuals who form the future of as nation. Therefore, every man and woman in this day and age, needs to assure that he or she knows her spouse well and subsequently form a mutual understanding between them. Marry a person whom you feel comfortable with, one who you know would take care of you, one who you can count on , one who you can love unconditionally, one who you can have mutual understanding with, and above all, a person who can bring a smile to your face for everyday of your married life. Sounds idealistic huh? well, who said life was easy.....Almost everything is attainable, but there is a price you have to pay for it. Marriage is the same....You need to make it work.

Anyway, enough about marriage.....When the time comes, i shall know what is right or wrong or should i say who was right and who was wrong. I actually just came back from attending a wedding, so that must be the reason for the current topic. LOL....

Enjoy the written piece below....Ultra sweet....Practice it and i'm sure you'll have a bloody awesome married life. Hahahahahah....


Luv U?
Message:
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